“I Ended Things with My Date After He Spent $700 on Dinner — Did I Make the Right Choice?”

In today’s dating world, everyone has a memorable story. Some are hilarious, while others have unexpected twists. Recently, a young woman from New York shared her experience of meeting someone who seemed like her perfect match on a dating app. Their fancy first date looked promising, but things took a surprising turn.

Our reader, who chose to stay anonymous, recounted how she met a man who was charming and considerate. Their connection felt genuine—he even remembered her coffee order and chose a popular seafood restaurant for their first date. However, as the evening progressed, his focus shifted to complaints about his ex-girlfriend, which dampened the mood.

After an evening of hearing his frustrations, she offered to split the check, but he declined, stating it was his responsibility to pay. Later that night, he sent her a frustrated message, expressing his disappointment in her lack of appreciation for a “real man.” She politely explained her expectations and decided to block him.

A few weeks later, a mutual friend revealed that he had been through a tough breakup, explaining his behavior. This revelation left her feeling guilty—had she judged him too harshly? Now, she’s torn between reaching out to offer understanding or moving on, uncertain about the next steps.

For anyone in a similar situation, it’s natural to feel compassion after learning someone’s backstory. While past experiences can explain certain behaviors, it’s important to remember that unresolved issues can impact new relationships. If you’re considering reaching out, be clear about your expectations for openness and positivity, recognizing that he may still need time to heal.